Comments on: SWANS Guide http://www.bustedhalo.com/features/pure-sex-pure-love-83-swans-guide/ an online magazine for spiritual seekers. Tue, 16 Mar 2010 22:44:40 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: BJBabyPennhttp://www.bustedhalo.com/features/pure-sex-pure-love-83-swans-guide/#comment-1639 BJBabyPenn Sun, 01 Feb 2009 21:21:38 +0000 http://www.bustedhalo.com/?p=6562#comment-1639 Hello!! How is everyone doing? I am a new member and I would like to introduce myself. My name Is BJ Penn and I am from Mdison USA.That is all for now. I am eager to interact with everyone one this forum! Hello!! How is everyone doing? I am a new member and I would like to introduce myself. My name Is BJ Penn and I am from Mdison USA.

That is all for now. I am eager to interact with everyone one this forum!

]]> By: Kyrahttp://www.bustedhalo.com/features/pure-sex-pure-love-83-swans-guide/#comment-1460 Kyra Tue, 20 Jan 2009 23:16:25 +0000 http://www.bustedhalo.com/?p=6562#comment-1460 1) While it is certainly "not so terrible" to be single and 30, I think we would all do well to remember the little detail that as Catholics we are supposed to be against the practice of pre-marital sex. Therefore we are telling men and women who plan on focusing on careers first and "getting married older" that they are to wait for sex until are in their thirties. Is that really practical?2) While women are having children later and later in life, age-related infertility is a huge and growing problem, not to mention the effects of high maternal and paternal age on a growing fetus. I think more should be said about this.3) The premise of "SWANS" seems to pre-suppose that all smart and educated women are high-earners with prestigious jobs. I count amongst my closest friends many brilliant women--doctors, Ph.D.'s, valedictorians of Ivy League schools--who postponed, effectively ended, or never began careers in order to be stay-at-home moms. So how are we really measuring "success" here? 1) While it is certainly “not so terrible” to be single and 30, I think we would all do well to remember the little detail that as Catholics we are supposed to be against the practice of pre-marital sex. Therefore we are telling men and women who plan on focusing on careers first and “getting married older” that they are to wait for sex until are in their thirties. Is that really practical?

2) While women are having children later and later in life, age-related infertility is a huge and growing problem, not to mention the effects of high maternal and paternal age on a growing fetus. I think more should be said about this.

3) The premise of “SWANS” seems to pre-suppose that all smart and educated women are high-earners with prestigious jobs. I count amongst my closest friends many brilliant women–doctors, Ph.D.’s, valedictorians of Ivy League schools–who postponed, effectively ended, or never began careers in order to be stay-at-home moms. So how are we really measuring “success” here?

]]> By: jason kennyhttp://www.bustedhalo.com/features/pure-sex-pure-love-83-swans-guide/#comment-1377 jason kenny Fri, 16 Jan 2009 08:04:13 +0000 http://www.bustedhalo.com/?p=6562#comment-1377 stay in and keep the door shut stay in and keep the door shut

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