Fast, Pray, Give
Busted Halo's Lenten plan is completely unflunkable, entirely relevant and totally inspiring
LENT AND CHOCOLATE HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH EACH OTHER!
For countless people — both Catholic and non-Catholic — Lent has somehow become known as the time of year for giving up chocolate. Why? Well, the truth is, nobody really seems to know for sure, but unless a Gnostic gospel according to Willy Wonka is discovered in a cave somewhere we’re pretty sure that simply removing all cocoa-related products from your diet doesn’t necessarily deepen your spiritual life.
And Jesus told his disciples and several faithful Oompa Loompas who were among them to gather up the scraps in baskets…” ?!?!
In order to rescue Lent from the chocolate-abstinence zombie that lives inside many of us, Busted Halo® decided to approach the season from a completely different perspective and actually give chocolate away to our readers during Lent.
Fast, Pray, Give
Traditionally, Lent was intended as a time for personal conversion leading up to Easter, during which Christians practiced the spiritual disciplines of fasting, prayer and almsgiving. The belief is that our consistent participation in these practices — like exercise we do for our physical health — is a form of purification that improves our spiritual wellbeing by stripping away all that is unnecessary and by becoming more mindful of our ultimate dependence on God in our lives.
But instead of chocolate, alcohol or tobacco, what if people thought of fasting, prayer and almsgiving in a broader context? What if those disciplines involved practices like reducing your dependence on electronic devices for 24 hours (fast); contemplating the 1.6 billion people in the world who have no access to electricity for a few moments (pray); and spending the extra time you’ve saved on personal interaction with someone important to you (give)? Or what if people reduced their carbon footprint for a day by using less energy (fast); then reflected for two minutes on the magnificent gift our natural environment is (pray); and finally placed $1 in a bowl they’ve set aside to collect money to be given away to a favorite charity — perhaps one that plants trees — at the end of Lent (give).
These are just two examples of the dozens of exercises in our Fast, Pray, Give Calendar that will help readers enter into the traditional spiritual disciplines of the Lenten season every day in ways that are practical, doable and relevant to their daily lives. Beginning Wednesday February 17, our Fast, Pray, Give Calendar will feature a new Daily Jolt of contemplation/inspiration every day and couple it with simple, practical suggestions for how to carry out the ancient Lenten spiritual disciplines of fasting, prayer and almsgiving that day.
Failure is not an option…
The idea isn’t to be perfect but to continue on our path — despite our screw-ups — in a way that builds toward Easter Sunday. Like any type of exercise, if this plan of action is followed with any sort of consistency there should be a cumulative effect — in this case, of a deepening spiritual awareness and renewal.
Worried that you won’t be able to follow through on what you’ve “given up” this year? Trust us, we’ve designed a Lenten plan that you can’t fail. Every day features a new set of Fast, Pray, Give suggestions, so if you slip up one day, don’t give up; simply pick up again the next day with a new Fast, Pray, Give. You can even share any struggles you might be having at our “Slip Support Station” on BustedHalo’s Facebook page.
A little incentive to get you started…
Of course, everyone needs a little help or encouragement now and then, so in addition to our Facebook “Slip Support Station” we’ll be offering three different levels of “Lent Incentives” (i.e. prizes):
- Daily (Busted Halo M&Ms, Swedish Fish, the current issue of Magnificat with the Lenten Companion, books, CDs, DVDs)
- Weekly (more valuable “mystery” prizes you guess at, based on clues), and our
- Ultimate Lent Incentive Grand Prize (an Easter basket stocked with a customized Flip Video Camera as well as Busted Halo M&Ms, Swedish Fish, and an assortment of books from our Halo store.)
Every day, readers will be given a clue describing the Weekly Prize. Readers can send in one guess each day. Each guess will enter them into the random drawings for both that day’s Daily Prize and the Easter basket stocked with a customized Flip Video Camera grand prize. If you guess correctly you will be entered into that Monday’s random drawing for the Weekly Prize. (If none of the entries in a given week have guessed the Weekly Prize correctly, the winner will be chosen from a random drawing of all that week’s entries.)
Entries must be accompanied by both email and snail mail addresses (don’t worry, this info won’t be given out to anyone, it just makes it easier to track contestants and winners). The Easter basket stocked with a customized Flip Video Camera Grand Prize will be awarded on April 4 in a random drawing from all eligible entries received during Lent. (See contest rules here.)
All you need to be eligible is come back to our calendar each day, open that day’s new link and follow the instructions on how to enter in the drawing. It’s easy; you can enter as often as once a day (and up your chances of winning). Winners will be chosen within 24 hours and notified.
Our weekly prize winner for week one is Dana Thomson of Archbald, PA. The correct answer was a wooden cross blessed by Pope Benedict.
Our weekly prize winner for week two is Kathy Boehm of Nashville, TN. The correct answer was a copy of My Life With the Saints, by Fr. Jim Martin, SJ.
Our weekly prize winner for week three is Chris Kielczewski of Port Jervis, NY. The correct answer was a Beautiful Mess CD by Bill McGarvey and the Good Thieves.
You can see a list of winners so far here.
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isn’t it odd to bribe people with electronics as gifts in the name of wanting them to also fast from them?
I feel a bit off about the prizes. It seems wrong to do these things because someone dangled a carrot in front of your eyes instead of doing them simply for love of God. I plan to participate, but I’m thinking twice about submitting for any prizes. (Though that will require a fierce struggle with my booklust.)
I think you’re both making a big deal about the prize. you can still do it simply for the love of god, but also maybe get a prize? How does a prize take away from the meaning of lent?
Where is a day for Dr. Martin Luther King of the United States? He very much deserves a day on this calendar. Remember – “I Have a Dream” Tolerance and Love?
I didn’t “do these things” because of the prizes – I just found the site in my quest of looking for things to enhance my Lenten experience. this just happened to be a site I came upon & I thought it was refreshing & fun. Lent – fasting,praying & alms should not be a sad occasion or a burden. It should be a joyous occasion – where we connect/reconnect/deeper connect with God! It is a celebration! And don’t we have games & prizes at celebrations – we don’t go to the celebration because of the games & prizes – they are just part of the fun!
Sara, perhaps they were trying to give people quotes that they haven’t heard 100000000 times
For those who have reservations about the prizes, you might consdier donating your winnings to a local charity.
Just discovered this site – great! I plan on posting more Lenten-worthy posts this season. Hopefully it will continue on.
http://www.sweetdesignrelief.wordpress.com
I think that the Fast, Pray, Give calendar is a great tool provided by Busted Halo. Last year I found the daily jolt to be a meaningful addition to my lenten journey. Thank you for providing this great resource!
Thanks gang, for providing this fun too again this year :)
I love this website. it may not be approved by the pope yet……. :)
Don’t get me wrong– I love the site, I love the calendar, and if you feel comfortable with the prize-giving part of FastPrayGive, then go for it. But for me, getting a prize *does* affect my Lenten experience. And I do think Lent should be a burden in a way…I’m not a masochist, and I do like Lent and find a certain kind of joy in it, but I think Lent should be challenge, and part of the challenge is not getting a material reward for your efforts. Perhaps I’m being overscrupulous, but this year I think I’ll err on the side of overscrupulousness. ;)
I’m not saying this to judge anyone or rain on anyone’s parade. Part of the reason why I felt compelled to comment on it is so that, by making a public statement, I’d be required to stick to my position. Donating the prizes to charity is a great idea, though I’ll probably avoid registering for them altogether. So thanks; I appreciate all your thoughts and comments on this subject. Pax Christi to all– have a good Lent.
I think the Lenten calendar is a wonderful idea and love the fast,pray,give suggestions the past 2 days. I think the prize is just something fun, let’s be a little more light hearted :)
Love the idea of this Lenten calendar. Do have to say I disagree about what you said giving up Chocolate and what does it have to do with deepen your spiritual life.Giving up anything you Love just as giving up electronic devices if it’s part of your daily life is a sacrifice. I can’t speak for all those who give up chocolate for lent but I can speak for myself. I do it because I totally Love Chocolate and eat it everyday in one form or another. By giving it up I’m letting God know I love him more than my chocolate. I wouldn’t do it for anyone else. Chocolate is around me everyday and it’s a temptation I’m saying NO to. Of course none of us can suffer the way Jesus Christ did for us on the cross. But by giving up something your truly love for the 40 days is showing him that he is worth the suffering of not having that certain thing we give up during Lent. Mine just happens to be Chocolate. If I gave up watching TV, the computer, or anything else electronic it wouldn’t mean the same since I can go days without getting on the computer or watching TV. But it takes a sacrifice for me to give up my Chocolate…..During Lent I take more time out of my day to pray and to thank God for all he has done for me in my life and for my family. I try to look for good in everyone even those who I come across during my daily life who are not kind. To me Lent is a time for taking spiritual inventory of my life, then cleaning out those things which hinder my personal relationship with Jesus Christ. It’s a spiritual renew inside of me. Yes I give up Chocolate for Lent and I’m happy to do it for the person I love more beyond anything else in this world.
Since I have to get to work early in the morning, it would be nice to be able to see the recommendations the night before for the following day so it can be an all day challenge and just night an evening one.
I agree with Wanda. I really wish you would release the day’s challenge at midnight or earlier so that one can see them and be prepared. Also, I’ve recommended this site to several non-US friends..so earlier release would be better for them too.
I guess I see this sight differently. I love the calendar (prizes or not); I wish it was more than just “lent” though. I think we all need a reminder to center ourselves/our life on God.
I agree with Lou. The thing about giving something up (even mundane chocolate) is giving up the habitual. We have to remember not to pop that M&M in our mouth, thus immediately focusing our minds on God, through Lent. Also, a little annoying: using Lent to promote MORE enviromentalism. So sick of this campaign! Don’t get me wrong, I believe in protecting the enviroment. I recycle, etc etc. But let’s also not forget—during Lent—Where and from Who our real protection comes!!
I love this calendar. It is just what I needed this year. I do wish we could see the suggestions the night before for planning purposes. I woke up this morning, had my coffee WITH CREAM and then came here to find that today’s challenge was to avoid dairy. I already blew it. And this is a good one on a Friday because I was planning on grilled cheese for dinner… but to avoid dairy, that isn’t going to work, but I need more time to plan around certain things.
I’m not participating for the prizes but for the extremely practical way of applying FPG to my daily life. No other site offers such sage advice. In all these years, this is the first time that I really feel that I’m fully engaged in Lent, on all levels.
I’m not doing this for the prizes, but I’ve e-mailed it to almost all I know. I’m not sure I agree with the chocolate stance either–giving up something we love and crave just cuts our dependance on it, and increases our taste for God. I do like your broader fasting take. Oh, I also need to be able to peek if I’m going to give up dairy. I was sitting here drinking my luncheon milk when I saw this, and already had some cream in my coffee. People need to plan…
I decided to do this for my Lenten discipline this year and I’ve encouraged many others to do so as well. I’m a minister at a United Methodist Church. Here’s my blog post about it.
The response to this year’s Fast Pray Give calendar has been nothing short of incredible. Between the coverage we’ve gotten from USA Today as well as countless blogs and sites who are using our FPG widgets and individual readers who are passing the calendar along to others, Busted Halo has smashed all of our previous traffic records. It’s been difficult to keep up with all of the emails and comments we’ve been getting so I wanted to leave a comment here to…
1) thank you for participating in this year’s calendar
2) encourage you to stay with it (and visit our “Slip Support Station” on our Facebook fan page to get back on track when you struggle) and, most importantly…
3) to beg for some Lenten mercy ;-)
We’re aware of the challenges that not releasing the next day’s info early presents for some–especially our readers outside the United States. We really wish we could make it possible for folks to get the info earlier but with so many people entering our contests it would be a logistical nightmare for us. We are a small non-profit organization and keeping up with the volume can be a real challenge.
In the spirit of Busted Halo’s take on Lent however I’d like to encourage people to start their fast for a particular day whenever you’re able to read the post and keep the fast going until you’ve read the next day’s entry. If the fast calls for you to refrain from dairy for the day and you’ve already put cream in your coffee, don’t sweat it, just start your fast after you’ve finished the coffee. It’s not about being perfect–we’re called BUSTED Halo for a reason btw–it’s about doing the best you can.
Thanks again for your willingness to try something new this Lent…keep the comments coming, we love the feedback.
Best,
Bill McGarvey
Editor-in-Chief
BustedHalo.com
This is AMAZING! I’m just bummed I didn’t find this Wednesday:)
Agree – can we access the next day for us early birds without internet facilities – I get the -it starts when it starts – but much easier to set aside the day – so I’ve decided I’m always going to be a day behind and my prize can be that I’ll have a day off at the end!
Hi! I like your idea, but I have a small quibble. It’s 10.24 a.m here in New Zealand on Tuesday 24 Feb. I clicked on today’s date and it says that I can’t “peek” ahead. I assume the website is US-based – which means that I could be up to 21 hours ahead of you. It would be really nice if the website could recognise that for me it’s Tuesday already. Thanks!
Oops – in relation to my comment above, I meant to say it’s Tuesday 23 Feb!
I also would love to be able to look at the next day ahead of time. Some days I do not get to my computer until 10 a.m. and I would love to start the fast, pray, give every morning as soon as I wake up.
I follwed the PFG Calendar last year and found the experience moving – more so than the practices I learned in Catholic school. I’m the editor of my church bulletin and I have dedicated a column each week to encourage our entire faith community to follow along the FPG way with our friends at BustedHalo.com.
Who won the weekly prize for this week?!
Rita, this week is still going on! If you look at today’s entry, there’s another clue. If you’re talking about last week, that’s listed both at the end of this page (above the comments), and here: http://www.bustedhalo.com/about/lenten-calendar-2010-giveaway-winners/
What time in the morning is the day “unlocked”? This is maybe the 3rd or 4th time I have tried to look at the FPG calendar for the day early in the morning (it’s 6:30 EST) and I get the “no peeking” message.
I should have first said “GREAT JOB” and thank you all so much for the workyou have put into this calendar. It is truly a daily enhancement to my own lenten journey. If it wasn’t, I wouldn’t be looking for your suggestions at 6:30 in the morning! :)
Sorry for the inconvenience. We’ve had a technical issue with the site over the past 24 hours that we’re in the process of fixing. We hope to have today’s entry live asap. Thanks for your patience.
Bill McGarvey
Editor-in-Chief
BustedHalo.com
billmcgarvey@bustedhalo.com
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